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So Selfish Essentials provides feminine care, bath, body, and skin care products that’s designed for you to make self care a priority. Our slogan is “when being selfish feels good". Be mindful of your own needs. All products are dedicated to making sure you put yourself first.

Shade Duo

No Shade Duo Brightening Scrub and Bightening Gel Wash

Regular price$55.00
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Dynamic lightening duo with lightening properties that works together to lighten underarms, intimate area, inner thighs, face and more. 

Color of product may be darker.

Please understand that everyone's skin is not the same. All ingredients are listed on product. Please read ingredients and make sure you are not allergic to anything listed. So Selfish Essentials is not responsible for skin reactions. This product contains turmeric. 

Directions: Apply scrub on shaded area, rub it approximately 2-3 minutes, let sit approximately 20 minutes, rinse then follow up with gel if you have duo. If it’s only the scrub, just rinse after 2-3 mins of rubbing it in and letting it sit for approx. 20 minutes. (Not mandatory to work)

Product contains a scrub and gel wash.

Main ingredients in gel wash

  • Kojic Acid-lightens skin, fade dark areas
  • Turmeric-lightening agent, lightens hyperpigmentation, reduce acne, reduce scarring
  • Vitamin E-protects skin
  • lemon essential oil-reduce inflammation, aids in exfoliation

Main ingredients in scrub-

  • Kojic Acid-lightens skin, fade dark areas
  • Turmeric-lightening agent, lightens hyperpigmentation, reduce acne, reduce scarring
  • Vitamin E-protects skin
  • lemon essential oil-reduce inflammation, exfoliate 
  • Papaya Extract-removes dead skin cells
  • Sugar-exfoliate
  • Licorice root-ease inflammation



My underarms are lighter and smoother after 2 weeks using the No shade duo. I can raise my arms without feeling ashamed.


I never thought I would find a solution for these dark circles because they’ve been like this for years. I started using this product No Shade Duo and I see such a dramatic difference. I’m soooo happy I’ve invested in this product.


After 3 and a half weeks of using the No Shade exfoliating brightening scrub then following up with the gel, I was able to see a significant change in my skin. I’m so happy with this product.


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From the journal



I was gifted the Lavender Selfcare Box for Mother’s Day and I love it! After taking a soak in the bath salt and rubbing my body down in the body butter I wake up the next morning so relaxed and rejuvenated . I highly recommend this box and will be purchasing one myself soon


With having such a light complexion, the under arm shaving caused serious dark spots. After trying several products I was introduced to the No Shade duo and within a week I could see progress. Within 10 days it was visibly noticeable that it lightened under my arms. I’m extremely pleased with the results. I highly recommend the no shade duo from So Selfish Essentials.


I recommend the eucalyptus bath bombs. I used them for my grandson as well as myself because we have sinus problems, they cleared us up. I also love the sleep (pillow) mists before bedtime especially if you suffer from discomfort or trouble sleeping.


For years I was ashamed of my dark underarms due to using razors. Ever since I started using The No Shade Duo I have more confidence in my appearance due to the lightening of my underarms.

Los Angeles, CA

The Self Care box is amazing. I was in love with the selfish care calming tea bath and now this. I wake up refreshed, rejuvenated and ready to tackle my day! Thank you So Selfish Essentials for being in-tuned to the needs of women and making it good to practice self care.


I am so in love with your products. Thank you for introducing me to the natural healthy products for the vagina. I suffer with Pcos and recently was told I have pre cancer cells on my ovaries so I decided to try the yoni pearls detox and I am so happy that I did because it improved my issues