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My underarms are lighter and smoother after 2 weeks using the No shade duo. I can raise my arms without feeling ashamed.


I never thought I would find a solution for these dark circles because they’ve been like this for years. I started using this product No Shade Duo and I see such a dramatic difference. I’m soooo happy I’ve invested in this product.


After 3 and a half weeks of using the No Shade exfoliating brightening scrub then following up with the gel, I was able to see a significant change in my skin. I’m so happy with this product.



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Our Customers Testimonials

I was gifted the Lavender Selfcare Box for Mother’s Day and I love it! After taking a soak in the bath salt and rubbing my body down in the body butter I wake up the next morning so relaxed and rejuvenated . I highly recommend this box and will be purchasing one myself soon


With having such a light complexion, the under arm shaving caused serious dark spots. After trying several products I was introduced to the No Shade duo and within a week I could see progress. Within 10 days it was visibly noticeable that it lightened under my arms. I’m extremely pleased with the results. I highly recommend the no shade duo from So Selfish Essentials.


I recommend the eucalyptus bath bombs. I used them for my grandson as well as myself because we have sinus problems, they cleared us up. I also love the sleep (pillow) mists before bedtime especially if you suffer from discomfort or trouble sleeping.


For years I was ashamed of my dark underarms due to using razors. Ever since I started using The No Shade Duo I have more confidence in my appearance due to the lightening of my underarms.


The Self Care box is amazing. I was in love with the selfish care calming tea bath and now this. I wake up refreshed, rejuvenated and ready to tackle my day! Thank you So Selfish Essentials for being in-tuned to the needs of women and making it good to practice self care.


I am so in love with your products. Thank you for introducing me to the natural healthy products for the vagina. I suffer with Pcos and recently was told I have pre cancer cells on my ovaries so I decided to try the yoni pearls detox and I am so happy that I did because it improved my issues


Omg I love love love the vibrant vajayjay clay and serum. I thought nothing would help my sagging kitty lips but now I’m loving how vibrant and youthful it looks. I can finally send my fiancé nudes without being ashamed


The Sedity Kitty Wash is a must have. I use it to replace my soap, it is a must have for a self-care shower routine


Hey Boo, I just wanted to let you know I started using your herbs and VSteam bowl coupled with more fertility herbs and I finally got pregnant. Xoxo